Writings

Over the 25 years that I have worked with couples, one thing has been asked of me more than anything else : How can we communicate better? Somehow, for almost all of us, communication goes wrong sometimes. We find we’re unable to communicate with our beloved anymore. We don’t feel heard, or we don’t understand them, or […]

All relationships have the energetic patterning of seasons and weather just like in nature. Different stages of our relationship can make for overarching seasons and the weather is more a reflection of the day to day experiences between us. Many of us feel a constantly changing, unpredictable, British-style weather as we navigate the interactions and […]

This is a love letter to the Earth, and a call to action to all of us who call this planet home. We cannot continue like this. Something has got to change in our consciousness as humans, specifically those of us who live in more economically developed countries. With the pandemic rolling into its second […]

Our intimate relationships are more important than ever, right now. Why? Because our social circles are greatly reduced, transformed into short bursts of outdoor meetings where we cannot hold one another, or online conversations where it can be so hard to really feel one another as we look between our respective screens and camera lenses. […]

A woman in her menopausal years is at her highest sexual potential. Yes, you read that right. Contrary to the script of a patriarchal mainstream culture, when a woman reaches menopause, a gateway opens to an entirely new sexual landscape. Our immersion in a culture that recognises female beauty only in the guise of the […]