Writings

Maintaining the spark of desire in long term relationship ? When we first meet someone, passion is often the way it begins: erupting spontaneously between us as if out of nowhere and we are pulled, like bees to nectar, to each other. It connects us instantly to the places in us that live beyond our […]

Over the 25 years that I have been working with couples, the one thing I get asked more than anything else : How can we communicate better? At some point in relationship (or often at lots of points) communication breaks down between us. We find we’re unable to be heard, unable to express ourselves or both and […]

All relationships have the energetic patterning of seasons and weather just like in nature. Different stages of our relationship can make for overarching seasons and the weather is more a reflection of the day to day experiences between us. Many of us feel a constantly changing, unpredictable, British-style weather as we navigate the interactions and […]

This is a love letter to the Earth, and a call to action to all of us who call this planet home. We cannot continue like this. Something has got to change in our consciousness as humans, specifically those of us who live in more economically developed countries. With the pandemic rolling into its second […]

A woman in her menopausal years is at her highest sexual potential. Yes, you read that right. Contrary to the script of a patriarchal mainstream culture, when a woman reaches menopause, a gateway opens to an entirely new sexual landscape. Our immersion in a culture that recognises female beauty only in the guise of the […]