Category Archives: couples
Has your relationship reached a threshold?
How’s your relationship? It’s a question we don’t often take the time to answer meaningfully. So I invite you, now, to take a moment to consider it. How’s your heart? The last 2 years have been difficult for lots of us. So many of the people I work with have come to me with make-or-break […]
Apparent short term gain for real long term loss
This is a love letter to the Earth, and a call to action to all of us who call this planet home. We cannot continue like this. Something has got to change in our consciousness as humans, specifically those of us who live in more economically developed countries. With the pandemic rolling into its second […]
Connect to love, connect to life
Our intimate relationships are more important than ever, right now. Why? Because our social circles are greatly reduced, transformed into short bursts of outdoor meetings where we cannot hold one another, or online conversations where it can be so hard to really feel one another as we look between our respective screens and camera lenses. […]
Sex and the Menopause
A woman in her menopausal years is at her highest sexual potential. Yes, you read that right. Contrary to the script of a patriarchal mainstream culture, when a woman reaches menopause, a gateway opens to an entirely new sexual landscape. Our immersion in a culture that recognises female beauty only in the guise of the […]
Your relationship can change the world
Healthy relationships impact our community and our lives in a positive way, far beyond the relationship itself. They are a rocket fuel to awakening that draw in all those around them to their potent heart-field. When we heal our relationship, we overlay a new, healed imprint over an old wound that goes back through […]
The medicine within conflict
To find the trail back to love, we turn inside to look within our own hearts and listen to the deeper longings. To find the longing we need to be willing to really feel it and then allow it expression. Even if it is never met, the expressing of a longing opens our hearts again. It’s an invitation to open out into the field of love that’s bigger than either one of you, a call to remember why it is you are still choosing each other.
Communication breakdown
Good communication is essential for the garden of any relationship to truly bloom. And it is where SO many couples get stuck. When we’re stuck here, everything our partner says seems to trigger us. We feel misunderstood, blamed, unheard, made wrong and so on. We try over and over again to express ourselves and they […]
When relationships falter..
Most of us were never taught the sacred art of relationship and intimacy. Instead we are thrown into a fast-flowing current of romantic relationships at puberty, a time when our identities are still fluid, and we’re exploring not only who we are, but the nature of the world around us. Our dominant Western culture doesn’t […]