Author Archives: Jewels Wingfield

Reclaiming the power of Menopause

A woman’s womb journey through her life is a journey into power. There is a spiritual power that is in service to the thriving and harmonising of life itself along with a guide map for women. This power is rooted in the womb-consciousness of their bodies. The womb has been misunderstood and denied for millennia […]

Igniting your passion

Maintaining the spark of desire in long term relationship ? When we first meet someone, passion is often the way it begins: erupting spontaneously between us as if out of nowhere and we are pulled, like bees to nectar, to each other. It connects us instantly to the places in us that live beyond our […]

The question ALL couples ask me

Over the 25 years that I have been working with couples, the one thing I get asked more than anything else : How can we communicate better? At some point in relationship (or often at lots of points) communication breaks down between us. We find we’re unable to be heard, unable to express ourselves or both and […]

Weathering the Storms of Relationship

All relationships have the energetic patterning of seasons and weather just like in nature. Different stages of our relationship can make for overarching seasons and the weather is more a reflection of the day to day experiences between us. Many of us feel a constantly changing, unpredictable, British-style weather as we navigate the interactions and […]

Apparent short term gain for real long term loss

This is a love letter to the Earth, and a call to action to all of us who call this planet home. We cannot continue like this. Something has got to change in our consciousness as humans, specifically those of us who live in more economically developed countries. With the pandemic rolling into its second […]

Connect to love, connect to life

Our intimate relationships are more important than ever, right now. Why? Because our social circles are greatly reduced, transformed into short bursts of outdoor meetings where we cannot hold one another, or online conversations where it can be so hard to really feel one another as we look between our respective screens and camera lenses. […]

Sex and the Menopause

A woman in her menopausal years is at her highest sexual potential. Yes, you read that right. Contrary to the script of a patriarchal mainstream culture, when a woman reaches menopause, a gateway opens to an entirely new sexual landscape. Our immersion in a culture that recognises female beauty only in the guise of the […]

Your relationship can change the world

Healthy relationships impact our community and our lives in a positive way, far beyond the relationship itself. They are a rocket fuel to awakening that draw in all those around them to their potent heart-field.    When we heal our relationship, we overlay a new, healed imprint over an old wound that goes back through […]

The medicine within conflict

To find the trail back to love, we turn inside to look within our own hearts and listen to the deeper longings. To find the longing we need to be willing to really feel it and then allow it expression. Even if it is never met, the expressing of a longing opens our hearts again. It’s an invitation to open out into the field of love that’s bigger than either one of you, a call to remember why it is you are still choosing each other.

The gift of shame and guilt

A post for white people on racism, white privilege and unconscious bias When someone calls us out on our unconscious bias around issues of race, and we get defensive, what we are really saying is “white feelings matter more than the lives of people with colour”. This is the paradigm of millennia – that people of […]