Your relationship can change the world

Healthy relationships impact our community and our lives in a positive way, far beyond the relationship itself. They are a rocket fuel to awakening that draw in all those around […]

The medicine within conflict

couple holding hands

To find the trail back to love, we turn inside to look within our own hearts and listen to the deeper longings. To find the longing we need to be willing to really feel it and then allow it expression. Even if it is never met, the expressing of a longing opens our hearts again. It’s an invitation to open out into the field of love that’s bigger than either one of you, a call to remember why it is you are still choosing each other.

The gift of shame and guilt

A post for white people on racism, white privilege and unconscious bias When someone calls us out on our unconscious bias around issues of race, and we get defensive, what we […]

Earth Day

There’s a stillness, a quietness, a quality of energy that’s in the field. There’s a difference in how the elements around us are expressing themselves.

It’s as if the volume has been turned up on nature and turned down on the business of humanity.

Communication breakdown

Good communication is essential for the garden of any relationship to truly bloom. And it is where SO many couples get stuck. When we’re stuck here, everything our partner says […]

We are at a Threshold

We are being invited into the Great Turning What is this ‘must keep busy’?What is this ‘what can I find to distract myself’?What is this ‘waiting to go back to […]

When relationships falter..

Most of us were never taught the sacred art of relationship and intimacy. Instead we are thrown into a fast-flowing current of romantic relationships at puberty, a time when our […]

11 Gateways to Intimacy

In our work with couples, we are guided by the 11 Gateways to Intimacy. These act as a framework within which we can find a map to navigate the problems […]

Daughters of Earth

The creation myths of our own lands, the ones that still are told in Scotland of the Cailleach for example, are signposts to our indigenous knowing, where women were the […]

Sacred disruption

As the news features Extinction Rebellion, Climate Strike and more, I see a rising tide of longing to actively resist the damage wrought by our society. Yet sometimes just ‘surviving’ […]