A four-week online course for couples in
The art of effective communication
Begins 5th January 2021
Are you going round in circles having the same conversations/arguments?
Do you say the same things to each over and over again?
Are you weary from trying to hear each other and seeming to fail?
Do you feel like you can’t express yourself how you’d like to?
Do you feel misunderstood by your partner?
Are you feeling a bit hopeless about being able to communicate well together?
We offer support that gets to the root of the issue and learn tools you can use EVERY DAY, to create amazing communication that is FAST and EFFECTIVE and does not involve weeks or months of therapy!
With over 30 years combined experience, we bring you potent, proven pathways to take you back into heartful, soulful communication that leaves you both feeling empowered, heard and connected.
What people say about our online couples’ courses
“…..I want to express my huge gratitude for the alchemy that you create together and that you hold.
Jewels, you have this quality of being able to elevate to a great height, see the universal picture and then bring that understanding down into the truth of the moment. Mark, it feels like you act as Jewels’ lightning conductor and her earthing tool. The energy you brought was very powerful and masculine but without any ego or need to dominate …..”
How will the course help our communication ?
Our unique program has been created from years of experience working with couples and how communication is so often at the heart of the difficulty. When the communication is working, other aspects of the relationship can easier fall into place. It’s like the roots of the tree.
We are all too aware of the challenges that this year has brought to so many couples. We have seen amazing results using these new and revolutionary methods to get couples back on track and talking well.
And we are also aware of the financial challenges that many couples are facing. This is why we are offering this course on a donation basis.
Held in the power of a community of other couples, you will learn not just from us but from the entire circle of fellow travellers which in itself offers as many insights and teachings as the course content. We hold all within a professional context, with the strictest of confidentiality.
Join us in discovering tools that really do transform your way of communicating.
Start from right where you are; we welcome you just as you are and are super keen to help you get back on track. There is no failure or shame in struggling in a relationship. It’s normal and inevitable that relationships have ups and downs.
We are here to help you smooth out those bumps!
What people say about our online couples’ courses
“….Jewels has an Exocet quality, of just being right there exactly in the space where you need to be … you have a tremendous gift…..you’re the real deal, your authenticity is utter and you’re frankly genius
“…Mark you’re so very caring, and able to hit something that might not have been acknowledged or recognised in the relationship . . .”
When you join the course you and your partner will:
- Receive step by step guidance in communication that creates deeper trust and empathy between you
- Methods to be able to hear your partner without getting so triggered or reactive
- Support in getting to the root of what gets in the way of being able to talk well together
- Learn key emotional intelligence so you can hear each other
- Know how to then be able to make decisions in the relationship and create the relationship you want
We begin on 5th January 2021. The course will be limited in numbers and will be on a first come first serve basis. The course is run on the ‘gift economy’ principle. This means that you are invited to pay from your gratitude for what you feel you have received. We ask for an initial donation to secure your place and as a gesture to take seriously your place on the course so that other are not prevented from attending if you change your mind at the last minute or during.
We want to make our work accessible to those who need it. We also want our work to be received in gratitude and to help cover our costs, and offering of time and expertise. If you are struggling to know what to contribute and you like guidance, the course is normally £350 per couple when we run it as a regular paid course.
All sessions are 7-9pm and are hosted via zoom. You need to be able to attend all sessions and be in the same physical location as your partner for all sessions.
About your guides
With decades of experience supporting couples through workshops, longer trainings and one-to-one sessions, we bring a depth of lived experience and a toolkit of practices and approaches to our work. Mark has a depth and breadth of experience and knowledge in working with men and the understanding of the common themes that arise for men.
Whether you have been together for 50 years or are new together, you are welcome.
Whether your relationship is rich and fulfilling and you simply want to deepen what you have already, or if you’re struggling and in difficulty you are welcome. We are very excited for you to join us. We love working with couples no matter what the nature of your relationship.
How we offer support
There is no right or wrong way to ‘do’ relationship and we work with each couple to honour their chosen way. There is no standard of longevity of connection for example, and no set rules – you may be in a monogamous or open relationship, enjoy a particular kind of sexuality etc.
We are here to support you both to feel empowered and to support your choices made from that empowered place. We work with all kinds of couples; those who have been together for 50 years and 5 months, those who have no sex life and those who seek unusual ways to connect.
We do not judge, we are interested to support you to find the love and the connection you long for. Simple as that!
If you and your partner find yourselves stuck in misunderstanding or conflict, you can find the trail back to love when you look within your own hearts and listen to your deeper longings.
To get to know the longing we need to be willing to really feel it and then allow it expression. This opens our hearts again. It’s an invitation to open out into the field of love that’s bigger than either one of you, a call to remember why it is you are still choosing each other.
“I’ve done quite a number of workshops with different teachers, but Jewels’ couples workshops have been the deepest, most powerful and beautiful experiences I’ve had so far. I am so grateful to the new start you have given my relationship.”
“The online couples event last night was INCREDIBLY helpful – we both woke up this morning very much in love with each other and full of hope for working out our differences – you two are a great team – and Jewels is like a relationship ninja!”
OP and AH
“You are both so skilled at holding space…. I felt held and safe and warm and connected and free. Particularly amazing that you made me feel that way through Zoom”
Poppy and Chris